Friday, March 03, 2006


Does a friend ask for a Loan -
Last week was the end of the month and a lot on fixed income..(welfare, retired etc) find the end of the month hard. I know of an individual whom will lend $20 for that last week of the month but charges $8 and must be paid when the check arrives on the 1st.. Paid on the 2nd and no change to borrow the next month.
As a friend, I understand the problem.. Invisible is the need for the money, the truth. Yes a lot of raisons given but what is the truth. Even family members will borrow. It is good to be there to help friends and family, but does it help to lean money. Will it come to be an habit ? It is better to go buy what is needed and give the bill for later paying..??
Invisible is the circuit of friends and family whom the person has to borrow from. Where are you on that circuit. Easily to ask, easily to be slow to pay, easily to con..? Invisible is the actual truth of borrowed and lending. Does a friend ask for money, or does a friend lean money?

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